Hi I’m Dani, Your Personal Coach….

I am trained expert and dedicated sex & relationship coach, with a background that includes extensive training in sexual wellbeing, relationship dynamics, and the psychology of intimacy. I received my certification through Somatica Institute® and am also recognized as a certified sexologist by the American Board of Sexology (ABS). I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate their intimate lives by creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can openly explore their desires, address challenges, and develop actionable strategies for enhancing their relationships. Together, we will work to uncover your unique desires, set realistic goals, and implement practical techniques that foster a healthier, more fulfilling life.

My Philosophy

As a relationship coach…

When you look at a family tree you often see generations of parents, grandparents, great grandparents, etc. You think of marriages, procreations, birthdates, and death. Though it’s a visualization of bloodline being passed down we are visionless of its trauma. You see generations of marriages but fail to see if they were happy marriages. You see generation of offspring yet unaware of what one’s childhood was like. Some may have died but do we know if it was peacefully in bed? All factors that can play in to a generation of inherited family trauma. When you start to focus on identifying and healing your own emotional trauma you have the ability to change the course of your lineage. Though there are various complex ways of healing trauma a key step in preventing yours from being passed on to your children is by creating a safe and secure relationship with your partner. A secure relationship does not mean “perfect” but it does include a relationship with a foundation built on

• Trust • Clear Communication • Compromise

• A Better Understanding of One Another • Quick to Repair

• Safety, Security, & Emotional Support

As a sex coach…

Sexual wellness is an integral part of overall well-being. Recognizing that sexuality is a complex interplay of emotional, psychological, and physical dimensions, I emphasize the importance of a holistic approach to sexual health. Understanding one’s own body and desires is fundamental. I help encourage my clients to explore their sexuality through education and awareness, dismantling myths and societal stigmas that limit sexual expression. Effective communication is crucial in fostering healthy sexual relationships. I teach clients the skills necessary to openly discuss their needs, boundaries, and desires with their partners. Honest dialogue not only enhances intimacy but also builds trust, making room for deeper emotional connections. I believe that self-discovery is a lifelong journey. Encouraging clients to engage with their own desires, preferences, and fantasies allows for greater self-acceptance and fulfillment. This process is vital for overcoming guilt, shame, and fear that may hinder sexual enjoyment. Many individuals have trauma or negative experiences related to their sexuality. I believe in the power of healing through coaching, fostering growth and resilience. By addressing past wounds, clients can cultivate healthier relationships with themselves and their partners. Sexual wellness is not a destination but a journey. I advocate for continuous growth and learning through

• Empowerment Through Knowledge • Communication is Key

• Self-Discovery & Acceptance • Respect & Consent • Embracing Diversity

• Healing & Growth • Ongoing Support

“Many folks don’t have sex because they’re not having sex worth having.”

— Quote

OFFERINGS

COUPLES

60 Minute Sessions

Better Communication, Relationship Repair, Maintaining Goals, Differing Levels of Desire, Low or Mismatched Sex Drives, Sexual Dissatisfaction, Infidelity, Sexless Marriage, Postpartum/Infertility, Kinks/Fetishes, Painful Intercourse, Exploring Non-Monogamy, Disability & Sex, Aging & Sexuality, Deepening Emotional and Physical Connection, etc.

MEN

60 Minute Sessions

Erectile Dysfunction, Performance Anxiety, Exploring Your Erotic Self, Body Shame, Newly Single, Reclaiming Self Expression, Masturbation, Trauma, Men’s Mental Health, Dating & Relationship Coaching, Visiting Your Inner Child, Kinks/Fetishes, Healing, Aging & Sexuality, Sex/Masturbation Addiction, Unwanted Attachments, Disability & Sex, Broadening Your Skills, Deciphering Sexual Identity, Sex Work, STI’s, Unwanted Fantasies/Turn-on’s, etc.

WOMEN

60 Minute Sessions

Low Libido/Low Desire, Performance Anxiety, Inability to Orgasm, Painful Sex, Body Shame, Newly Single, Reclaiming Self Expression, Masturbation, Aging & Sexuality, Trauma, Visiting Your Inner Child, Healing, Dating & Relationship Coaching, Unwanted Attachments, Postpartum & Infertility, Deciphering Sexual Identity, Disability & Sex, Kinks/Fetishes, Unwanted Fantasies/Turn-on’s, Sex Work, STI’s, Broadening Your Sills, Sex/Masturbation Addiction, etc.

Schedule a FREE 15 minute consultation

Secure your path to personal and relationship growth by scheduling a 15 minute complimentary phone consultation, to ensure my services are right for you. Start your transformative journey today and see the difference expert guidance can make in achieving your goals.

 FAQs

  • I am a trained expert specializing in somatic sex coaching and erotic intimacy. Helping individuals and couples gain the tools needed to fulfill their relationship and or sex life. My coaching is proactive, results-oriented work with one session building on one another.

    Coaching can help you navigate sexual and relational dynamic by developing confidence, learning to communicate more effectively, help bring that spark back to your relationship, learn erotic skills, etc. I am trained to provide guidance, support, and tools to enhance intimacy, communication, and connection. I focus on various aspects, including sexual health, emotional intimacy, relationship patterns, and personal growth.

    I serve a diverse clientele, including those seeking to improve their romantic relationships, individuals exploring their sexuality, and couples who wish to deepen their emotional and physical connection. Through personalized sessions, workshops, and resources I aim to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships both on an individual level and within partnerships.

  • Each session is unique to the client or couple I am working with as every client's needs vary. Each session is tailored to the unique needs or goals of the individual or couple.

    During a session you can expect a safe, confidential space where you can openly discuss your thoughts, feelings, and concerns. I will begin by establishing rapport and understanding your unique situation, so be prepared to share your relationship history, current challenges, and personal goals. Sessions will typically involve active listening, where I will ask probing questions to clarify your thoughts and feelings. I may guide you through exercises designed to help you gain insight into your behaviors and attitudes regarding intimacy and relationships. Expect to explore communication patterns, emotional triggers, and any issues related to sexual fulfillment.

    Goal-setting is a critical part of the process. we will collaboratively establish specific, achievable objectives to work towards in your relationship or sex life. This may involve practical strategies, such as improving communication skills, enhancing emotional intimacy, or exploring sexual desires in a healthy context.

    Overall, sessions will be adaptive to your needs, focusing on building a stronger foundation for your intimate connections and fostering personal growth. As you progress, expect to develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationship dynamics.As clients work through their tailored objectives, they gain valuable insights and skills that can lead to lasting change and fulfillment in their relationships.

  • It depends on what you are looking to get out of Sex & Relationship Coaching, as sessions can be unique to each client. As your coach, it is my mission to work at a pace most comfortable with you. As everyone integrates new ideas at different speeds. Sessions can be weekly, biweekly, once a month, or every 6 months - it depends on the extent of what you're looking to work on.

  • All sessions between the coach and client are non-sexual and fully clothed at all times. I may integrate experiments between you and your partner that involve light touch, depending on your level of comfortability. It is my job to make you feel as safe as possible during session so you will not be forced to do anything beyond your level of comfortability.

  • I currently am only scheduling appointments virtually (zoom call)

  • To schedule an appointment please go to my Contact Me Page

What Clients Are Saying…

  • "I loved working with Dani. During our time together it occured to me that she's somewhat of a Yoda! She's calm, present, attentive, free from judgement, intuitive, simple & wise.... when she speaks, she drops the mic with deep wisdom - the kind that resonates in my soul. An amazing listener, wise well beyond her years and rich in experience. Dani really brought out the parts of me relating especially to my sex & sexuality that I found very nurturing and inspiring."

    - Terasa L.

  • “Dani is an amazingly intuitive coach and I highly recommend her if you're looking for big transformational shifts in your life. In my sessions with her, I felt held, heard, seen, appreciated and understood. Dani's ability to attune to my needs and desires for the arc of my self-growth is masterful. She has a unique gift of honing in on what's important for you as a client in an honest and authentic way. And Dani brings her boundless kindness and compassion into the space to make you feel safe with deep emotions and whatever needs to move. You'll be in very good hands!"

    - Aleanu Matthee

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Contact Me

If you’re interested in working with me as your coach, please provide your name, email, phone number, and a brief description on what you are looking to get from our session(s) and I will reach out as soon as possible.