Trauma
Trauma is a broad term that encompasses a variety of psychological, emotional, and physical responses to distressing experiences. It can arise from single events, such as accidents or assaults, or from prolonged exposure to stressors, such as childhood abuse or ongoing domestic violence. Each individual’s reaction to trauma is unique, influenced by a variety of factors including personal history, coping mechanisms, and support systems.
The effects of trauma can be pervasive, influencing not only individual behavior and emotional health but also interpersonal relationships and overall quality of life. Common symptoms include anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), emotional numbness, and difficulties with trust or intimacy.
Sexual trauma can have a profound and lasting impact on an individual's life. It encompasses a range of experiences that may include sexual assault, harassment, or abuse, and the effects can manifest physically, emotionally, and psychologically. Those who have experienced sexual trauma often face challenges such as anxiety, depression, difficulties in relationships, and a disrupted sense of safety and trust.
Ultimately, the journey of healing from sexual trauma is unique to each survivor. Healing from sexual trauma is a deeply personal journey that requires time, support, and the right resources. With the right tools and support, individuals can navigate their path toward recovery, find empowerment, and redefine their narrative. It is important to remain patient and compassionate with oneself throughout this process. Healing is not linear, and recognizing progress in any form is a vital part of reclaiming one's life after trauma.
Effective trauma recovery emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and gradual exposure to trauma-related emotions, fostering resilience over time. It encourages individuals to engage in mindfulness practices, develop coping strategies, and build supportive networks that contribute to long-term healing. By acknowledging trauma’s impact and actively working towards recovery, individuals can reclaim their sense of agency and pursue lives filled with purpose and connection.
I have recurring thoughts or flashbacks related to my trauma which has disrupted my daily and/or intimate life.
I have shame around my trauma and feel responsible for it.
I have unresolved trauma but am afraid to confide in my friends or family
My trauma has gone unheard, causing me to feel helpless and alone.
My trauma has caused a negative effect on my ability to feel my most sexual self
Trauma has caused me to feel shame in my body or the way I look
Trauma has caused me to have trust issues, negatively affecting my relationships or ability to engage in intimacy
I feel shame about fantasizing about my trauma in a sexual way
Trauma has caused me to detach from myself and or others.
I avoid certain people, places, or situations that remind me of my trauma, and I no longer wish to.
I am afraid to start dating again after my trauma
Trauma has gotten in the way of my sex life
I want my partner to understand my trauma and the affects it has had on me
I feel helpless not being able to give my partner what they need from me regarding their trauma
Do any of these sound familiar?
Consider booking a session
As your coach I will work with you in ways to collaboratively establish specific, achievable objectives to work towards in your relationship or sex life. This may involve practical strategies, such as improving communication skills, enhancing emotional intimacy, or exploring sexual desires in a healthy context